Thank goodness for the internet, right boys? Now you can buy your significant other exactly what you’ve been dying to see her in but too afraid of running into your beer drinking buddies while shopping for…. Lingerie!

There are a few simple things you’ll need to know. The first being the girls size. The best way to find out is to look through her panty drawer! This way you not only find out her size but you will see what colors she prefers, what colors she has too many of, and this can also help prevent the purchase of something she already owns.


If you are scared of getting caught pawing around in her underwear drawer (scene out of a bad romantic comedy, anyone?) then get on the phone and call one of her friends for help. If her friends are all prudes or if that is still too awkward for you then I recommend the wishlist approach.

See if you can get your girlfriend to set up a wishlist on a site like Kaboodle. Kaboodle will let you save *any* item from *any* website to your own wishlist that you can keep and use for any occasion! Mainstream sites like Victoria’s Secret and Amazon.com also allow people to save wishlists. You can’t go wrong with the wishlist, she’ll save what she wants and she’ll save it in her size. The gift wont be as much of a surprise but she’s guaranteed to love it!


Now that the hard part is done here some tips for buying your first intimate gift. Obviously you don’t want to go straight for the cat of nine tails with matching handcuffs. Unless you’re dating one of my friends. *wink*

By now you should know what parts of her body she likes to accentuate. If you want her to wear what you buy then you need to keep in mind her favorite part of her body, not yours!



If you’ve been talking about spicing things up a bit in the bedroom and want to make a bold but safe purchase you could pair the above item with a set of sexy heels. I suppose it all depends on your budget and it goes without saying that nice lingerie doesn’t come cheap… though Angels Desire has some nice pieces for very reasonable prices.